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Why a Coldpitch message never says when

"A couple of days ago" is the most natural phrase in a cold DM, and the one most likely to be untrue.

Written down 4 October 2026

A Coldpitch draft says what happened, a round closed, a role opened, a promo post was paid for, and never when. Not "a couple of days ago", not "last week". The date stays on the lead, where you can see it and check it. It is kept out of the message because it is the fact most likely to be wrong by the time the message is read.

How a date goes wrong

What the message says instead

The event itself, plainly: the round, the role, the sponsorship. That somebody is writing about it at all already says it is recent. The rest of the message is about what the event means for their marketing, which does not go stale in a week.

Where the rule came from

A real draft told a company its role had been posted "a couple of days ago" when the posting was more than a week old. Nobody would have been harmed by it, and it was still untrue. So the phrasing went, from every kind of message at once, and the drafts already waiting were cleaned the same day.

It is the same rule as personalising without inventing, applied to the one fact that changes on its own.

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